Sharon Salzberg
2017-08-02
Love & Relationships

Real Love with Sharon Salzberg

Sharon Salzberg is a NYT best-selling author and teacher of Buddhist meditation practices in the West. She also cofounded the Insight Meditation Society and is the author of 9 books, the most recent being Real Love: The Art of Mindful Connection.

In this episode of The Psychology Podcast, we get to learn about why Sharon has devoted her life to these ideas, how meditation has impacted her consciousness, what characterizes “real love”, what differences exist between the modern-scientific notions of attachment and Buddhist notions of nonattachment, what Loving Kindness practice is, how you can love someone even if you don’t like them (and why you should), how to extend compassion to people who are already self-satisfied, why an important component of self-love is accountability, empathy burnout, how stories play a role in love, why love isn’t a state, why excitement vs. familiarity in romantic relationships is perhaps a false paradox, and how mindfulness can help you reframe even the most emotionally difficult situations.

Sharon also takes us through her RAIN model for mindfulness:

R -recognize

A – acknowledge

I – investigate

N – nonidentification

Enjoy!

Links:

Buy Sharon’s new book Real Love: The Art of Mindful Connection

Follow Sharon on Twitter

Find Sharon’s meditations on:

The Insight Timer meditation app (iOS and Android) 

[Book] Eric Fromm’s Art of Loving (mentioned)

About the guest

Sharon Salzberg

Podcast Guest

Sharon Salzberg is an American author and teacher of Buddhist meditation in the West. In 1974 she co-founded the Insight Meditation Society in Barre, Massachusetts, with Jack Kornfield and Joseph Goldstein, and is known for her emphasis on vipassana and metta (loving-kindness) practices.

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