Ellen Hendriksen
Podcast 2018-06-06

How To Be Yourself with Ellen Hendriksen

with Ellen Hendriksen

Today we have Dr. Ellen Hendriksen on the podcast. Dr. Hendriksen is a clinical psychologist who helps millions calm their anxiety and be there authentic selves through her award-winning Savvy Psychologist podcast, which has been downloaded over 5 million times, and at Boston University’s Center for Anxiety and Related Disorders. Her latest book is called […]

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Today we have Dr. Ellen Hendriksen on the podcast. Dr. Hendriksen is a clinical psychologist who helps millions calm their anxiety and be there authentic selves through her award-winning Savvy Psychologist podcast, which has been downloaded over 5 million times, and at Boston University’s Center for Anxiety and Related Disorders. Her latest book is called “How to Be Yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety.”

  • What is your real self?
  • What is social anxiety?
  • What is the opposite of social anxiety?
  • What’s the goal of therapy to treat social anxiety?
  • How to be comfortable when you are “caught being yourself”
  • The importance of self-compassion
  • The difference between introversion and social anxiety
  • Techniques to overcome social anxiety
  • The Orchid-Dandelion Hypothesis
  • The relationship between the highly sensitive person and openness to experience
  • The importance of going out and living your life first, and letting your confidence catch up
  • The importance of turning attention “inside out”
  • How perfectionism holds us back
  • The importance of “daring to be average”
  • The myth of “hope in a bottle”
  • Gender differences in the manifestation of social anxiety

Seven core insights

What 11 years of conversation
revealed

  • 01
    Being over DoingThe richness of presence and inner life over constant productivity.
  • 02
    Creativity over EfficiencyMaking space for imagination and originality in a world that prizes optimization.
  • 03
    Self-Actualization over AchievementBecoming the fullest version of yourself, not just reaching the next milestone.
  • 04
    Deep Fulfillment over HappinessPursuing meaning and depth rather than fleeting positive feelings.
  • 05
    Self-TranscendenceGoing beyond the self to serve something larger — the highest expression of human potential.
  • 06
    Meaning & CompassionThe threads that run through every great conversation — purpose, connection, and care.
  • 07
    Human PossibilityThe unwavering belief that every mind is capable of far more than we’ve been told.

About the guest

Ellen Hendriksen

Ellen Hendriksen

Podcast Guest

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